Sometimes confusion arises when we think we need to follow a script, a plan set fourth, mostly discovered by piecing together other paths set fourth in our peripheries.
Follow the leader. See, this is how it was done before. This is how (insert name) did it.
But, you are clearly you, and not that other (BLANK ) person. So, trust yourself, and trust IN yourself. Lead. It's scary. But, aren't we all scared anyways?
Following the script might be good when you're doing a studio picture and the committee is looking over your shoulder, but in life, a script is nothing but fantasy plots. Or worse, an excuse to do nothing.